How to Talk to the Wrong Person on Twitter
People who talk to other people who have the same interests as they do tend to make mistakes and are prone to becoming frustrated.
One recent study found that people who use automated messages, such as Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, often do not know what their friends want, and end up having conversations that do not work.
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People are more likely to miss an opportunity to get to know someone, even if they know them well.
They are more reluctant to communicate their opinions, and are more inclined to engage in passive-aggressive or defensive behavior.
They may get caught up in the process of connecting with others, and may not get the full benefit of their efforts.
They miss out on people who are interested in their interests.
They don’t always connect with the right people.
“If you’re not following someone, you’re missing out,” says Stephanie Nolen, a senior fellow at the Urban Institute who specializes in online communication.
“I think it’s something we all do in some way, whether it’s a person who’s not really on your radar, or someone who doesn’t have your interests in mind, or an interest in a topic that you don’t understand.”
Nolen recently took part in a TEDxTalk about the importance of creating and sharing content on social media.
The TEDx Talk featured a woman who said she had to choose between being a professional writer and becoming a journalist because she didn’t have enough time to work on her book.
Nolen shared how the TEDx talk was a perfect example of what Nolen calls the “rejection trap”: She was initially excited about her new role, but then her husband started asking her questions about what she was writing.
When she was finished, he said she should “go write a book.”
When Nolen went to the publisher and asked for more time, she was told she would be asked to go back to the editor’s office and rewrite the book.
“It was frustrating, and it was really scary,” she says.
She was able to connect with someone in the office who was supportive and understood what was going on.
But when she went back to work, she learned that her husband had not actually read the book she was working on and she wasn’t the author.
Noren says that the problem is more widespread than just people who make bad decisions.
“What happens when you don of the right person?
And what happens when the right one is a woman?” she says, explaining that the lack of communication is also linked to anxiety and depression.
Nouns and phrases can also help in building trust.
For example, if you’re a comedian, “go for it” is a great way to show your audience that you’re willing to give a performance.
You can also use a positive or neutral word like “sad,” “sweet,” “happy,” “amazing,” or “beautiful” to express your excitement.
If you’re writing a book, you can say something like, “this book is so awesome.”
If you use a word like cute, you’ll likely get a laugh from people who enjoy seeing cute things.
Nossens advice for building a strong online presence is to use a wide variety of different words and phrases that people are used to hearing.
“The only time people use negative language is when they’re bored,” she explains.
Norsen says that using a lot of different types of words to describe a subject is a powerful way to create a positive conversation.
“Use all the words you want,” she adds.
“But if you say, ‘You’re cute,’ and you say ‘you’re adorable,’ that’s not a good word for you to use.
You need to find a way to use that positive word that’s just so cute.”
You can see Nolen’s TEDx Talks on YouTube here.